Your dates: turning first dates into second dates
Why first dates go nowhere for so many professional Brown and Asian men, and what changes it.
First Date Tips for Men: 15 Ways to Lead It and Get a Second Date
First date tips for men who want a second date: 15 tips on planning, leading and ending the date, from a coaching team that coaches men's dates every week.
Dating Tips for Men: 30 Tips From Over 100 Men We've Coached
Dating tips for men that work: 30 tips on your profile, who sees you, texting and dates, from a coaching team that has coached over 100 Brown and Asian men.
Questions to Ask on a First Date: 50 That Build Real Attraction
50 questions to ask on a first date, sorted by stage, that build attraction instead of an interview. Plus how to follow up, tease and go deeper as a man.
What to Wear on a First Date (Men): 20 Outfit Ideas That Work
What to wear on a first date as a man: 20 first date outfits sorted by style archetype and venue, the rules for fit and grooming, and 10 things to avoid.
First Date Ideas: 40 Ideas for Men Who Want a Second Date
40 first date ideas for men, ranked by how easy they make it to lead the date and move venue, plus 10 to avoid and a simple plan that gets a second date.
How to Be Confident on a Date: A Plan for Nervous Professionals
How to be confident on a date when nerves hit: why "just be confident" fails, and the plan, reps and breathing that bring first date nerves down.
Second Date Tips: How to Get a Second Date, for Brown and Asian Men
Second date tips, step by step: lead the plan, move venue, show clear interest, set up the next date in person and send the right text afterwards.
What to Text After a First Date: 6 Example Texts That Set Up Date Two
Send one short text that night or the next morning. The 3-part message that sets up date two, 6 weak vs better example texts, and the needy mistakes to skip.
First Dates Go Nowhere? No Second Date? Fixes for Brown and Asian Men
First dates go nowhere and no second date? If you're a Brown or Asian man, here's why the date confirms the stereotype, and what to change on the next one.
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