Naturally Magnetic Men: Dating Coach for Indian, Asian & Minority Men
Naturally Magnetic Men (NMM) is a dating coaching programme for professional Brown and Asian men dating in the West. It was founded by Ravi Sandhu and is run by a team of three: Ravi, Rags and Coach D. The team has coached over 100 Brown and Asian men. Coaching is online, for men in the US, Canada, the UK, Europe, Australia, New Zealand and the UAE. There are city guides for New York, London and Toronto.
We work with men who are winning in their careers but not in dating. Usually he's a working professional earning USD 40K or more. He's done the gym, the clothes and maybe a photographer, and he's still getting few matches or first dates that go nowhere.
Who we help
- Brown (South Asian: Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan and diaspora) and Asian men (East and Southeast Asian), the ethnic minority men most often filed into the stereotype on Western dating apps
- Dating in Western markets, usually on the apps
- Late 20s to 40s, career sorted, wanting a real relationship rather than "options"
- Often men who have already tried other coaching or advice that wasn't built for their position
The problem we solve
It isn't his face. Women often file Brown and Asian men into a type within about four seconds: competent, safe, a good catch for someone else. Much of that is conditioning, shaped in part by how rarely Asian men are shown on screen as romantic leads. Once she's filed him, everything else he does gets read through that type.
How it works: the Double-Take Effect
The goal is for her to stop seeing a generic Brown or Asian guy and look twice. That takes three parts, installed together:
- Your profile. Rags rebuilds his dating profile within 7 days: archetype, photos, bio and prompts, so what she reads in the first four seconds is who he actually is.
- Who sees you. We set up the market: the city, apps, age range and distance where the women most likely to look twice will see him.
- Your dates. Coach D coaches every date. After each date he sends a debrief, and the coaching covers leading the date, building attraction instead of running an interview, and handling nerves.
Fix two and skip the third, and the double take never turns into a second date. That's why the parts are coached together.
Results our clients have shared
- Charles, 25, a chemical engineer in New York, had been on around 50 dates that went nowhere and was getting about one date every two weeks. After we rebuilt his profile and coached his texting, date set-ups and nerves, his matches went "from a few a day to like 20, 30 a day", and one week he went on four dates.
- A South Asian senior professional in his 30s in New York had never been on a date. In his first week on his new profile: 35 matches, 16 conversations, 7 numbers and 4 dates booked. Forty-five days in, by his own count, he'd been on 9 dates with 7 different women.
Read the full case studies, including Charles, Kevin, Jay, Skippy and Romeo, on our Client results page.
The team
- Ravi Sandhu, founder. At 24 he couldn't leave the house; at 30 he had still never been on a date. Coaching rebuilt how women read him, and he left a career in strategy to build NMM. He's every client's point of contact from day one.
- Rags rebuilds every client's profile and coaches texting. He has rebuilt profiles for more than 50 minority men, including Ravi's.
- Coach D, in New York, coaches clients on their dates until they're leading them.
The programme
- Most men start with the 21-Day Kickstart: USD 2,000 (or the equivalent), or two payments of USD 1,000. Rags rebuilds your profile and runs two live texting sessions, Coach D runs three live date-coaching sessions, and Ravi checks in with you by message every day for 21 days, with a 45-minute implementation and strategy call near the end. Graduates can continue for six months at USD 2,000 a month.
- Or go straight into the full programme: USD 2,500 a month, or USD 14,500 for six months upfront.
- Two live coaching calls a week, a debrief after every date, the full profile rebuild live within 7 days.
- The Continue-Free Guarantee: men who go the full six months and do the work are pushed until they hit our quality-date standard, and if they're not there by the end, they keep being coached free until they are. A quality date means he led it, there was real attraction and connection, he stayed grounded, and his coach confirms it from his debrief.
Reviews
Read independent client reviews of Naturally Magnetic Men on Trustpilot.
Free resources
- The free Profile Analyser: see what your profile tells her in the first four seconds.
- The weekly breakdown: one short email a week on how Brown and Asian men get filed on the apps, and what to change.
- Articles: dating advice for Indian, Asian and minority men in the West, including dating coach for Indian men, dating coach for Asian men and dating as a minority man.
- YouTube and Instagram.
Contact: ravi@naturallymagneticmen.com. Naturally Magnetic Men is a trading name of RS Systems Global LLC.