Coach D: Date Coach for Indian, Asian and Minority Men in New York
Coach D is the date coach at Naturally Magnetic Men, based in New York. He makes sure your dates go somewhere. He keeps his face off camera; his clients' results speak for him.
Ravi Sandhu, NMM's founder, worked with Coach D in New York after Rags had rebuilt his profile. Coach D fixed what was still underneath: the nerves, and the patterns that kept turning good first dates into "you're a nice guy". They later built Naturally Magnetic Men together with Rags.
What Coach D works on
Coach D works on the third part of what we call the Double-Take Effect: your dates. The date has to back up the double take, so it turns into a second date.
Most professional Brown and Asian men were raised to be logical, polite and agreeable. On a date that reads as safe, and safe doesn't get a second date. Coach D works on how you lead the date, creating a spark instead of an interview, and the nerves underneath.
How you work with Coach D
- In the 21-Day Kickstart: three live group date-coaching sessions, one each Saturday. See the Kickstart.
- In the six-month programme: after every date you send him a short debrief, and he tells you exactly what to change before the next one.
What people say
"When I see him take somebody who's 5'5, 5'6… maybe Asian or Indian… and I see him get results for a guy like that… I've seen that more than once over the years."
Matt · 6'2" New York bouncer, on watching Coach D work
Long-term students, in their own words
- Kevin, Asian-American, tech: read his case study · watch: why successful men fail with women
- Skippy, Indian, tech, New York: read his case study · watch: after years of rejection
- Romeo, medical doctor, New York: read his case study · watch: a successful doctor with no dating success
- Jay, Korean-American, New York: read his case study · watch: his walk-and-talk with Coach D
All of our written case studies are on the Client results page.
Read more: first dates going nowhere? the fixes · how to get a second date · the rest of the team